Quick answer

Hardness difference decides everything. Stones within about half a point of each other on the Mohs scale can share a wrist or a pouch safely; once one stone is a full point harder, it will scratch the other over months of ordinary wear, and the mark cannot be polished out at home. Amethyst (7) next to malachite (3.5-4) is the classic failure; amethyst next to rose quartz (7) is not a problem at all.

Pick two stones and the checker returns a verdict, the reason for it, and what to do about it. Every verdict below is computed from hardness ranges and care notes held in our own stone data, not from shop copy.

Both lists include every stone we hold data for. Start with the pair you actually own.

How the verdict is worked out

We compare the low end of each stones hardness range, because that is the direction most likely to take damage. A stone with one hard direction and one soft direction is judged by its soft side, which is why kyanite is treated as a soft stone here even though its blades will scratch glass. Three outcomes are possible, and they are not a matter of taste: below half a point of difference the two stones cannot cut each other; between half a point and two points the softer one will mark over months and needs a spacer; at two points or more the softer stone will visibly scratch in ordinary daily wear.

Hardness bandStones in this bandWhat it means when stones touch
Mohs 9Ruby, SapphireDiamond-hard corundum. Scratches everything below it.
Mohs 7-8Agate, Amethyst, Aquamarine, Carnelian, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Emerald, Garnet, Jasper, Peridot, Pink Tourmaline, Rose Quartz, Smoky Quartz, Tiger's Eye, TopazQuartz family and the hard gems. The everyday-wear tier.
Mohs 6-6.5Amazonite, Green Aventurine, Jade, Labradorite, Moonstone, Opal, Pyrite, Rhodonite, SodaliteFeldspars and jade. Fine as a pendant, risky next to quartz.
Mohs 5-5.5Black Obsidian, Hematite, Kyanite, Lapis Lazuli, Snowflake Obsidian, TurquoisePorous and softer stones. Keep away from quartz and metal edges.
Below Mohs 5Azurite, Calcite, Cinnabar, Fluorite, Malachite, Pearl, SeleniteSoft, soluble or brittle. Nothing harder should touch them.

Band against band

The table below compresses the whole checker into five rows, so you can read the answer without running the tool. Each cell gives the verdict for any stone from the row band against any stone from the column band. Diagonal cells are always safe, which is the single most useful line in the table: a stone cannot scratch itself.

BandMohs 9Mohs 7-8Mohs 6-6.5Mohs 5-5.5Below Mohs 5
Mohs 9Safe togetherScratchesScratchesScratchesScratches
Mohs 7-8ScratchesSafe togetherCare neededCare neededScratches
Mohs 6-6.5ScratchesCare neededSafe togetherCare neededScratches
Mohs 5-5.5ScratchesCare neededCare neededSafe togetherCare needed
Below Mohs 5ScratchesScratchesScratchesCare neededSafe together

Every stone, with what it can share a wrist with

This is the checker in full, written out so it can be read without JavaScript and quoted without running anything. The third column lists stones that can share a wrist, a chain or a pouch as they are. The fourth lists stones that are close enough in hardness to wear together only with a smooth metal spacer bead or a separate strand. The last column lists stones that will visibly scratch this one, ordered by how far apart they are: the first names in that column are the worst combinations.

StoneMohsSafe to wear withSafe with a metal spacerKeep separate from
Agate6.5-7Carnelian, Garnet, Jasper, Peridot, Tiger's EyeAmazonite, Amethyst, Aquamarine, Black Obsidian, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Emerald, Green Aventurine, Hematite, Jade, Labradorite, Lapis Lazuli, Moonstone, Opal, Pink Tourmaline, Pyrite, Rhodonite, Rose Quartz, Smoky Quartz, Snowflake Obsidian, Sodalite, Topaz, TurquoiseCinnabar, Selenite, Pearl, Calcite, Azurite, Malachite, Fluorite, Ruby, Sapphire, Kyanite
Amazonite6-6.5Green Aventurine, Jade, Labradorite, Moonstone, PyriteAgate, Amethyst, Aquamarine, Black Obsidian, Carnelian, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Emerald, Garnet, Hematite, Jasper, Kyanite, Lapis Lazuli, Opal, Peridot, Pink Tourmaline, Rhodonite, Rose Quartz, Smoky Quartz, Snowflake Obsidian, Sodalite, Tiger's Eye, TurquoiseCinnabar, Selenite, Pearl, Calcite, Ruby, Sapphire, Azurite, Malachite, Fluorite, Topaz
Amethyst7-7Citrine, Clear Quartz, Pink Tourmaline, Rose Quartz, Smoky QuartzAgate, Amazonite, Aquamarine, Carnelian, Emerald, Garnet, Green Aventurine, Jade, Jasper, Labradorite, Moonstone, Opal, Peridot, Pyrite, Rhodonite, Sodalite, Tiger's Eye, TopazCinnabar, Selenite, Pearl, Calcite, Azurite, Malachite, Fluorite, Kyanite, Black Obsidian, Hematite, Lapis Lazuli, Ruby, Sapphire, Snowflake Obsidian, Turquoise
Aquamarine7.5-8EmeraldAgate, Amazonite, Amethyst, Carnelian, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Garnet, Green Aventurine, Jade, Jasper, Labradorite, Moonstone, Peridot, Pink Tourmaline, Pyrite, Rose Quartz, Ruby, Sapphire, Smoky Quartz, Tiger's Eye, TopazCinnabar, Selenite, Pearl, Calcite, Azurite, Malachite, Fluorite, Kyanite, Black Obsidian, Hematite, Lapis Lazuli, Snowflake Obsidian, Turquoise, Opal, Rhodonite, Sodalite
Azurite3.5-4MalachiteBlack Obsidian, Calcite, Cinnabar, Fluorite, Hematite, Kyanite, Lapis Lazuli, Pearl, Selenite, Snowflake Obsidian, TurquoiseRuby, Sapphire, Topaz, Aquamarine, Emerald, Amethyst, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Pink Tourmaline, Rose Quartz, Smoky Quartz, Agate, Carnelian, Garnet, Jasper, Peridot, Tiger's Eye, Amazonite, Green Aventurine, Jade, Labradorite, Moonstone, Pyrite, Opal, Rhodonite, Sodalite
Black Obsidian5-5.5Hematite, Lapis Lazuli, Snowflake Obsidian, TurquoiseAgate, Amazonite, Azurite, Carnelian, Fluorite, Garnet, Green Aventurine, Jade, Jasper, Kyanite, Labradorite, Malachite, Moonstone, Opal, Peridot, Pyrite, Rhodonite, Sodalite, Tiger's EyeRuby, Sapphire, Cinnabar, Selenite, Topaz, Aquamarine, Emerald, Pearl, Amethyst, Calcite, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Pink Tourmaline, Rose Quartz, Smoky Quartz
Calcite3-3Nothing in this listAzurite, Cinnabar, Fluorite, Kyanite, Malachite, Pearl, SeleniteRuby, Sapphire, Topaz, Aquamarine, Emerald, Amethyst, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Pink Tourmaline, Rose Quartz, Smoky Quartz, Agate, Carnelian, Garnet, Jasper, Peridot, Tiger's Eye, Amazonite, Green Aventurine, Jade, Labradorite, Moonstone, Pyrite, Opal, Rhodonite, Sodalite, Black Obsidian, Hematite, Lapis Lazuli, Snowflake Obsidian, Turquoise
Carnelian6.5-7Agate, Garnet, Jasper, Peridot, Tiger's EyeAmazonite, Amethyst, Aquamarine, Black Obsidian, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Emerald, Green Aventurine, Hematite, Jade, Labradorite, Lapis Lazuli, Moonstone, Opal, Pink Tourmaline, Pyrite, Rhodonite, Rose Quartz, Smoky Quartz, Snowflake Obsidian, Sodalite, Topaz, TurquoiseCinnabar, Selenite, Pearl, Calcite, Azurite, Malachite, Fluorite, Ruby, Sapphire, Kyanite
Cinnabar2-2.5SeleniteAzurite, Calcite, Malachite, PearlRuby, Sapphire, Topaz, Aquamarine, Emerald, Amethyst, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Pink Tourmaline, Rose Quartz, Smoky Quartz, Agate, Carnelian, Garnet, Jasper, Peridot, Tiger's Eye, Amazonite, Green Aventurine, Jade, Labradorite, Moonstone, Pyrite, Opal, Rhodonite, Sodalite, Black Obsidian, Hematite, Lapis Lazuli, Snowflake Obsidian, Turquoise, Kyanite, Fluorite
Citrine7-7Amethyst, Clear Quartz, Pink Tourmaline, Rose Quartz, Smoky QuartzAgate, Amazonite, Aquamarine, Carnelian, Emerald, Garnet, Green Aventurine, Jade, Jasper, Labradorite, Moonstone, Opal, Peridot, Pyrite, Rhodonite, Sodalite, Tiger's Eye, TopazCinnabar, Selenite, Pearl, Calcite, Azurite, Malachite, Fluorite, Kyanite, Black Obsidian, Hematite, Lapis Lazuli, Ruby, Sapphire, Snowflake Obsidian, Turquoise
Clear Quartz7-7Amethyst, Citrine, Pink Tourmaline, Rose Quartz, Smoky QuartzAgate, Amazonite, Aquamarine, Carnelian, Emerald, Garnet, Green Aventurine, Jade, Jasper, Labradorite, Moonstone, Opal, Peridot, Pyrite, Rhodonite, Sodalite, Tiger's Eye, TopazCinnabar, Selenite, Pearl, Calcite, Azurite, Malachite, Fluorite, Kyanite, Black Obsidian, Hematite, Lapis Lazuli, Ruby, Sapphire, Snowflake Obsidian, Turquoise
Emerald7.5-8AquamarineAgate, Amazonite, Amethyst, Carnelian, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Garnet, Green Aventurine, Jade, Jasper, Labradorite, Moonstone, Peridot, Pink Tourmaline, Pyrite, Rose Quartz, Ruby, Sapphire, Smoky Quartz, Tiger's Eye, TopazCinnabar, Selenite, Pearl, Calcite, Azurite, Malachite, Fluorite, Kyanite, Black Obsidian, Hematite, Lapis Lazuli, Snowflake Obsidian, Turquoise, Opal, Rhodonite, Sodalite
Fluorite4-4Nothing in this listAzurite, Black Obsidian, Calcite, Hematite, Kyanite, Lapis Lazuli, Malachite, Opal, Pearl, Rhodonite, Snowflake Obsidian, Sodalite, TurquoiseRuby, Sapphire, Topaz, Aquamarine, Emerald, Amethyst, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Pink Tourmaline, Rose Quartz, Smoky Quartz, Agate, Carnelian, Garnet, Jasper, Peridot, Tiger's Eye, Amazonite, Cinnabar, Green Aventurine, Jade, Labradorite, Moonstone, Pyrite, Selenite
Garnet6.5-7.5Agate, Carnelian, Jasper, Peridot, Tiger's EyeAmazonite, Amethyst, Aquamarine, Black Obsidian, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Emerald, Green Aventurine, Hematite, Jade, Labradorite, Lapis Lazuli, Moonstone, Opal, Pink Tourmaline, Pyrite, Rhodonite, Rose Quartz, Smoky Quartz, Snowflake Obsidian, Sodalite, Topaz, TurquoiseCinnabar, Selenite, Pearl, Calcite, Azurite, Malachite, Fluorite, Ruby, Sapphire, Kyanite
Green Aventurine6-7Amazonite, Jade, Labradorite, Moonstone, PyriteAgate, Amethyst, Aquamarine, Black Obsidian, Carnelian, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Emerald, Garnet, Hematite, Jasper, Kyanite, Lapis Lazuli, Opal, Peridot, Pink Tourmaline, Rhodonite, Rose Quartz, Smoky Quartz, Snowflake Obsidian, Sodalite, Tiger's Eye, TurquoiseCinnabar, Selenite, Pearl, Calcite, Ruby, Sapphire, Azurite, Malachite, Fluorite, Topaz
Hematite5-6Black Obsidian, Lapis Lazuli, Snowflake Obsidian, TurquoiseAgate, Amazonite, Azurite, Carnelian, Fluorite, Garnet, Green Aventurine, Jade, Jasper, Kyanite, Labradorite, Malachite, Moonstone, Opal, Peridot, Pyrite, Rhodonite, Sodalite, Tiger's EyeRuby, Sapphire, Cinnabar, Selenite, Topaz, Aquamarine, Emerald, Pearl, Amethyst, Calcite, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Pink Tourmaline, Rose Quartz, Smoky Quartz
Jade6-7Amazonite, Green Aventurine, Labradorite, Moonstone, PyriteAgate, Amethyst, Aquamarine, Black Obsidian, Carnelian, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Emerald, Garnet, Hematite, Jasper, Kyanite, Lapis Lazuli, Opal, Peridot, Pink Tourmaline, Rhodonite, Rose Quartz, Smoky Quartz, Snowflake Obsidian, Sodalite, Tiger's Eye, TurquoiseCinnabar, Selenite, Pearl, Calcite, Ruby, Sapphire, Azurite, Malachite, Fluorite, Topaz
Jasper6.5-7Agate, Carnelian, Garnet, Peridot, Tiger's EyeAmazonite, Amethyst, Aquamarine, Black Obsidian, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Emerald, Green Aventurine, Hematite, Jade, Labradorite, Lapis Lazuli, Moonstone, Opal, Pink Tourmaline, Pyrite, Rhodonite, Rose Quartz, Smoky Quartz, Snowflake Obsidian, Sodalite, Topaz, TurquoiseCinnabar, Selenite, Pearl, Calcite, Azurite, Malachite, Fluorite, Ruby, Sapphire, Kyanite
Kyanite4.5-7Nothing in this listAmazonite, Azurite, Black Obsidian, Calcite, Fluorite, Green Aventurine, Hematite, Jade, Labradorite, Lapis Lazuli, Malachite, Moonstone, Opal, Pyrite, Rhodonite, Snowflake Obsidian, Sodalite, TurquoiseRuby, Sapphire, Topaz, Aquamarine, Emerald, Amethyst, Cinnabar, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Pink Tourmaline, Rose Quartz, Selenite, Smoky Quartz, Agate, Carnelian, Garnet, Jasper, Pearl, Peridot, Tiger's Eye
Labradorite6-6.5Amazonite, Green Aventurine, Jade, Moonstone, PyriteAgate, Amethyst, Aquamarine, Black Obsidian, Carnelian, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Emerald, Garnet, Hematite, Jasper, Kyanite, Lapis Lazuli, Opal, Peridot, Pink Tourmaline, Rhodonite, Rose Quartz, Smoky Quartz, Snowflake Obsidian, Sodalite, Tiger's Eye, TurquoiseCinnabar, Selenite, Pearl, Calcite, Ruby, Sapphire, Azurite, Malachite, Fluorite, Topaz
Lapis Lazuli5-6Black Obsidian, Hematite, Snowflake Obsidian, TurquoiseAgate, Amazonite, Azurite, Carnelian, Fluorite, Garnet, Green Aventurine, Jade, Jasper, Kyanite, Labradorite, Malachite, Moonstone, Opal, Peridot, Pyrite, Rhodonite, Sodalite, Tiger's EyeRuby, Sapphire, Cinnabar, Selenite, Topaz, Aquamarine, Emerald, Pearl, Amethyst, Calcite, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Pink Tourmaline, Rose Quartz, Smoky Quartz
Malachite3.5-4AzuriteBlack Obsidian, Calcite, Cinnabar, Fluorite, Hematite, Kyanite, Lapis Lazuli, Pearl, Selenite, Snowflake Obsidian, TurquoiseRuby, Sapphire, Topaz, Aquamarine, Emerald, Amethyst, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Pink Tourmaline, Rose Quartz, Smoky Quartz, Agate, Carnelian, Garnet, Jasper, Peridot, Tiger's Eye, Amazonite, Green Aventurine, Jade, Labradorite, Moonstone, Pyrite, Opal, Rhodonite, Sodalite
Moonstone6-6.5Amazonite, Green Aventurine, Jade, Labradorite, PyriteAgate, Amethyst, Aquamarine, Black Obsidian, Carnelian, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Emerald, Garnet, Hematite, Jasper, Kyanite, Lapis Lazuli, Opal, Peridot, Pink Tourmaline, Rhodonite, Rose Quartz, Smoky Quartz, Snowflake Obsidian, Sodalite, Tiger's Eye, TurquoiseCinnabar, Selenite, Pearl, Calcite, Ruby, Sapphire, Azurite, Malachite, Fluorite, Topaz
Opal5.5-6.5Rhodonite, SodaliteAgate, Amazonite, Amethyst, Black Obsidian, Carnelian, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Fluorite, Garnet, Green Aventurine, Hematite, Jade, Jasper, Kyanite, Labradorite, Lapis Lazuli, Moonstone, Peridot, Pink Tourmaline, Pyrite, Rose Quartz, Smoky Quartz, Snowflake Obsidian, Tiger's Eye, TurquoiseCinnabar, Ruby, Sapphire, Selenite, Pearl, Calcite, Topaz, Aquamarine, Azurite, Emerald, Malachite
Pearl2.5-4.5Nothing in this listAzurite, Calcite, Cinnabar, Fluorite, Malachite, SeleniteRuby, Sapphire, Topaz, Aquamarine, Emerald, Amethyst, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Pink Tourmaline, Rose Quartz, Smoky Quartz, Agate, Carnelian, Garnet, Jasper, Peridot, Tiger's Eye, Amazonite, Green Aventurine, Jade, Labradorite, Moonstone, Pyrite, Opal, Rhodonite, Sodalite, Black Obsidian, Hematite, Lapis Lazuli, Snowflake Obsidian, Turquoise, Kyanite
Peridot6.5-7Agate, Carnelian, Garnet, Jasper, Tiger's EyeAmazonite, Amethyst, Aquamarine, Black Obsidian, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Emerald, Green Aventurine, Hematite, Jade, Labradorite, Lapis Lazuli, Moonstone, Opal, Pink Tourmaline, Pyrite, Rhodonite, Rose Quartz, Smoky Quartz, Snowflake Obsidian, Sodalite, Topaz, TurquoiseCinnabar, Selenite, Pearl, Calcite, Azurite, Malachite, Fluorite, Ruby, Sapphire, Kyanite
Pink Tourmaline7-7.5Amethyst, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Rose Quartz, Smoky QuartzAgate, Amazonite, Aquamarine, Carnelian, Emerald, Garnet, Green Aventurine, Jade, Jasper, Labradorite, Moonstone, Opal, Peridot, Pyrite, Rhodonite, Sodalite, Tiger's Eye, TopazCinnabar, Selenite, Pearl, Calcite, Azurite, Malachite, Fluorite, Kyanite, Black Obsidian, Hematite, Lapis Lazuli, Ruby, Sapphire, Snowflake Obsidian, Turquoise
Pyrite6-6.5Amazonite, Green Aventurine, Jade, Labradorite, MoonstoneAgate, Amethyst, Aquamarine, Black Obsidian, Carnelian, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Emerald, Garnet, Hematite, Jasper, Kyanite, Lapis Lazuli, Opal, Peridot, Pink Tourmaline, Rhodonite, Rose Quartz, Smoky Quartz, Snowflake Obsidian, Sodalite, Tiger's Eye, TurquoiseCinnabar, Selenite, Pearl, Calcite, Ruby, Sapphire, Azurite, Malachite, Fluorite, Topaz
Rhodonite5.5-6.5Opal, SodaliteAgate, Amazonite, Amethyst, Black Obsidian, Carnelian, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Fluorite, Garnet, Green Aventurine, Hematite, Jade, Jasper, Kyanite, Labradorite, Lapis Lazuli, Moonstone, Peridot, Pink Tourmaline, Pyrite, Rose Quartz, Smoky Quartz, Snowflake Obsidian, Tiger's Eye, TurquoiseCinnabar, Ruby, Sapphire, Selenite, Pearl, Calcite, Topaz, Aquamarine, Azurite, Emerald, Malachite
Rose Quartz7-7Amethyst, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Pink Tourmaline, Smoky QuartzAgate, Amazonite, Aquamarine, Carnelian, Emerald, Garnet, Green Aventurine, Jade, Jasper, Labradorite, Moonstone, Opal, Peridot, Pyrite, Rhodonite, Sodalite, Tiger's Eye, TopazCinnabar, Selenite, Pearl, Calcite, Azurite, Malachite, Fluorite, Kyanite, Black Obsidian, Hematite, Lapis Lazuli, Ruby, Sapphire, Snowflake Obsidian, Turquoise
Ruby9-9SapphireAquamarine, Emerald, TopazCinnabar, Selenite, Pearl, Calcite, Azurite, Malachite, Fluorite, Kyanite, Black Obsidian, Hematite, Lapis Lazuli, Snowflake Obsidian, Turquoise, Opal, Rhodonite, Sodalite, Amazonite, Green Aventurine, Jade, Labradorite, Moonstone, Pyrite, Agate, Carnelian, Garnet, Jasper, Peridot, Tiger's Eye, Amethyst, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Pink Tourmaline, Rose Quartz, Smoky Quartz
Sapphire9-9RubyAquamarine, Emerald, TopazCinnabar, Selenite, Pearl, Calcite, Azurite, Malachite, Fluorite, Kyanite, Black Obsidian, Hematite, Lapis Lazuli, Snowflake Obsidian, Turquoise, Opal, Rhodonite, Sodalite, Amazonite, Green Aventurine, Jade, Labradorite, Moonstone, Pyrite, Agate, Carnelian, Garnet, Jasper, Peridot, Tiger's Eye, Amethyst, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Pink Tourmaline, Rose Quartz, Smoky Quartz
Selenite2-2CinnabarAzurite, Calcite, Malachite, PearlRuby, Sapphire, Topaz, Aquamarine, Emerald, Amethyst, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Pink Tourmaline, Rose Quartz, Smoky Quartz, Agate, Carnelian, Garnet, Jasper, Peridot, Tiger's Eye, Amazonite, Green Aventurine, Jade, Labradorite, Moonstone, Pyrite, Opal, Rhodonite, Sodalite, Black Obsidian, Hematite, Lapis Lazuli, Snowflake Obsidian, Turquoise, Kyanite, Fluorite
Smoky Quartz7-7Amethyst, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Pink Tourmaline, Rose QuartzAgate, Amazonite, Aquamarine, Carnelian, Emerald, Garnet, Green Aventurine, Jade, Jasper, Labradorite, Moonstone, Opal, Peridot, Pyrite, Rhodonite, Sodalite, Tiger's Eye, TopazCinnabar, Selenite, Pearl, Calcite, Azurite, Malachite, Fluorite, Kyanite, Black Obsidian, Hematite, Lapis Lazuli, Ruby, Sapphire, Snowflake Obsidian, Turquoise
Snowflake Obsidian5-5.5Black Obsidian, Hematite, Lapis Lazuli, TurquoiseAgate, Amazonite, Azurite, Carnelian, Fluorite, Garnet, Green Aventurine, Jade, Jasper, Kyanite, Labradorite, Malachite, Moonstone, Opal, Peridot, Pyrite, Rhodonite, Sodalite, Tiger's EyeRuby, Sapphire, Cinnabar, Selenite, Topaz, Aquamarine, Emerald, Pearl, Amethyst, Calcite, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Pink Tourmaline, Rose Quartz, Smoky Quartz
Sodalite5.5-6Opal, RhodoniteAgate, Amazonite, Amethyst, Black Obsidian, Carnelian, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Fluorite, Garnet, Green Aventurine, Hematite, Jade, Jasper, Kyanite, Labradorite, Lapis Lazuli, Moonstone, Peridot, Pink Tourmaline, Pyrite, Rose Quartz, Smoky Quartz, Snowflake Obsidian, Tiger's Eye, TurquoiseCinnabar, Ruby, Sapphire, Selenite, Pearl, Calcite, Topaz, Aquamarine, Azurite, Emerald, Malachite
Tiger's Eye6.5-7Agate, Carnelian, Garnet, Jasper, PeridotAmazonite, Amethyst, Aquamarine, Black Obsidian, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Emerald, Green Aventurine, Hematite, Jade, Labradorite, Lapis Lazuli, Moonstone, Opal, Pink Tourmaline, Pyrite, Rhodonite, Rose Quartz, Smoky Quartz, Snowflake Obsidian, Sodalite, Topaz, TurquoiseCinnabar, Selenite, Pearl, Calcite, Azurite, Malachite, Fluorite, Ruby, Sapphire, Kyanite
Topaz8-8Nothing in this listAgate, Amethyst, Aquamarine, Carnelian, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Emerald, Garnet, Jasper, Peridot, Pink Tourmaline, Rose Quartz, Ruby, Sapphire, Smoky Quartz, Tiger's EyeCinnabar, Selenite, Pearl, Calcite, Azurite, Malachite, Fluorite, Kyanite, Black Obsidian, Hematite, Lapis Lazuli, Snowflake Obsidian, Turquoise, Opal, Rhodonite, Sodalite, Amazonite, Green Aventurine, Jade, Labradorite, Moonstone, Pyrite
Turquoise5-6Black Obsidian, Hematite, Lapis Lazuli, Snowflake ObsidianAgate, Amazonite, Azurite, Carnelian, Fluorite, Garnet, Green Aventurine, Jade, Jasper, Kyanite, Labradorite, Malachite, Moonstone, Opal, Peridot, Pyrite, Rhodonite, Sodalite, Tiger's EyeRuby, Sapphire, Cinnabar, Selenite, Topaz, Aquamarine, Emerald, Pearl, Amethyst, Calcite, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Pink Tourmaline, Rose Quartz, Smoky Quartz

What hardness does not cover

Two stones can be a safe pair and still be a bad combination for other reasons. Water-sensitive stones should not share a cleaning session with stones you rinse under the tap, because the habit that is harmless for quartz will dull malachite. Stones that are porous take up dye and oil, so a dyed bead stored against them can transfer colour. And elastic strands wear out where beads rub, so a heavy stone next to a light one shortens the life of the whole bracelet. Our wearing rules and storage guide cover those cases.

Sources

  • Mohs hardness scale as published in mineralogy references; values cross-checked against species data maintained by Mindat, the mineral database of the Hudson Institute of Mineralogy.
  • Treatment and disclosure practice follows the terminology used by the Gemological Institute of America in its gem-treatment guidance.
  • Stone identification limits: hardness testing, specific gravity and refractive index are the standard tests, described in the GIA Gem Encyclopedia.

Disclaimer

This is reference information for buying, wearing and caring for stones, not a laboratory identification and not medical advice. Hardness values follow standard mineralogy and a given piece can behave differently if it is treated, fractured or unusually thin. For anything you intend to put in your mouth, on broken skin or in a container of drinking water, treat a jeweller's or a mineralogist's in-person assessment as the only reliable answer.